Imagine a long day of frustration as you try to get things done. Chores need to be done around the house, groceries bought, and meals fixed, and a very stubborn parent grumbling in the background. Dealing with dad when he digs his heels in on a matter can leave you tired and agitated. What happened to your loving, joking father that used to tell silly jokes?
There are a variety of reasons why your once mild-mannered mother lashes out when you ask a question. Fear, anger, and isolation are a few ways your elderly may react to growing old. Caring for seniors takes patience, love, and a steady hand. A homecare helper from Home Instead Senior Care Etobicoke is trained to help families and their loved ones during this time of life.
When you run into resistance from dad, it is vital to step back and use these suggestions to regroup and keep your relationship intact:
Readjusting how you handle your stubborn parent is paramount to getting the help they need. Sometimes having a third party involved can make a difference. A professional caregiver from Home Instead Senior Care can provide the extra support that helps dad remain independent.
Call us at (416) 239-2200 to schedule a no-obligation in-home consultation. Learn more about the compassionate, quality home care we deliver each day to families in the Etobicoke area.
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